DEFINE YOUR VALUES AND ALIGN YOUR ACTIONS

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According to Dave Ellis, in his masterpiece: Becoming A Master Student,”One key way to choose what is next in your life is to define your values.
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What are values?
Values are the things in life that you want for their own sake. Values influence and guide your choices, including your moment-by-moment choices of what to do and what to have. Your values define who you are and who you want to be.
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Unfortunately, some people are guided by values they do not choose for themselves or by the ones they are largely unconscious of. This is why they are easily manipulated. You see, if you do not know where you are going, any road can take you there
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As a matter of necessity, invest time and energy to define your values in life.Without this, your life will largely be in a shambles. If you do not know what you want, you do not want anything at all
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Some values are encompassing. Below are some of them. Use them as a guide to creating your own values. Your life needs a conscious definition and direction
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Value:Be Accountable
This means being:
?Honest
?Reliable
?Trustworthy
?Dependable
?Responsible.
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Value:Be Loving
This means being:
?Affectionate
?Dedicated
?Devoted
?Accepting
?Equitable
Being loving also includes appreciating ourselves and others.
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Value:Be self-generating
This means being:
?Self-responsible
?The creator of your internal experiences, regardless of your external circumstances.
Being self-generating also means not being a victim and not blaming others Instead, we choose how to interpret and respond to all stimuli.
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Value:Be Promotive
This means being:
?Nurturing
?Contributing
?Helpful
?Encouraging
?Reasonable
?Cooperative
?Appreciative.
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Value:Be Detached
This means being:
?Impartial
?Unbiased
?Satisfied
?Patient, not resigned
?Open-minded
?Tolerant
?Willing to surrender
Detachment also includes being separate from but aware of thoughts, emotions, body, health, accomplishments, relationships, desires etc.The opposite of detachment is being addicted.
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Value:Be Aware of the possible
This means being:
?Creative
?Imaginative
?Resourceful
?Inventive
?Visionary
Etc
Being aware of the possible means expecting great things of ourselves and others
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Value:Be Involved
This means being:
?Committed
?Participating
?Focused
?Enduring
?Productive
?Energetic
?Courageous
Etc
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Use these values to assess yourself and those you take as your friends. Be honest in doing this. Humanity will be happy for you, if you can step up in value. As long as sustainable success is concerned, it is value or nothing
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Think about this, good morning pals.

Watchwords:Do not give up as long as you have something to give It’s all about value.

Onyeka Ozoudeokpoko

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