You are more beautified by your thinking than by your cosmetic applications and outfit. Some people are facially beautiful, but thoughtfully ugly and unattractive.

Situations will always come and it must demand your thinking to handle it.

One thing you must understand is this,a situation does not disfavor two people at the same time. If someone one dies, the casket seller makes sales and thank s God. If your car develops fault, the mechanic rejoices that work has come. In the same vein,if you mishandle situations through your unattractive and ugly thoughts, the lawyer will rejoice. In fact, one of the stickers a lawyer pasted on his car bears this inscription:” *Trouble is our Food”

Unattractive thinking has caused families, relationships, businesses to go sour.Just a little thing that requires an amicable settlement, you begin to raise your voice.Yeah! You begin to lay unnecessary emphasis to prove your poverty of the mind. And in the end, you lose. You suffer.

I found it irreconcilable when two biological brothers are in the police station, each boasting and threatening to jail the other for life. Do you now see a stark personification of unattractive thinking?

You see, you don’t have to say everything that comes to your mind, your position notwithstanding. It’s true there’s freedom of speech, but there is no freedom after speech.And this is why you should be careful.

Many are now regretting how unattractive thinking has made them react to trivial issues, which culminated in costing their relationship, imprisonment, penalty, demotion and disgrace.

You see,we live more in our thoughts. Beautify your thoughts, just as you beautify your body. Do this by reading and applying what you read. You may be in suits, and you are respected but the moment you speak, and it is not attractive, everything will literally evaporate.

Silence is golden.*The attractive minds make great use of it. The silent man is the most feared in some situations. *Keeping silent does not mean you are weak,it means, you are critically looking at the whole situation, to enable you take a better decision

Haste creates waste. It takes years to build reputation but it takes minutes to destroy it. Destruction, easier than construction. Therefore, work to becoming attractive in your thinking, this will manifest in your actions and reactions.

Think about this, good morning pals.

Watchwords:Do not give up as long as you have something to give

Onyeka Ozoudeokpoko

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  • Emmanuel Nnamoko

    As a man thinkers so is he…..sometimes critical and thoughtful observation is good before ACTION

    • Onyeka Ozoudeokpoko


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