TAKE BACK YOUR LIFE.

*TAKE BACK YOUR LIFE*
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If you are 18, this post is for you. As an adult, have you thought about why the Nigerian law made it that one is due to go to jail,if one is upto 18? It’s because at that age, you are assumed to have matured and you are in full consciousness of the decisions you are making.
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Question is, what you are doing now, are you the one that decided to be doing it?
Most people are into marriages, courses, relationships,professions, countries etc they never decided to go or get involved in.
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They’re doing them because their parents, friends,pastors, prophets, prophetesses tell them to do so. And when the crises that follow such come,none of them will be there to share the experience with you. They will even deny pushing you to take such a decision. They will now remind you that it was just a suggestion that they made and that you are the one that made the final decision. *This is why you must take back your life*.
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Many ladies have gone to menopause just because they allowed their parents entirely to make the choice of a life partner for them and in the end, they’ll keep looking for ‘Hushppupi'(?) And thus, all the men that came for you will just leave. *It’s your life! Take it back now or never!*
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Some people are wetting the pillows every night in their homes because they married the wrong person. And when they complain to their parents because they are the planners, all they would receive as advice is *keep enduring everything for the sake of peace*. What kind of peace are they talking about? *Take back your life, now or remain silent for ever*
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Your sorrow is yours, your happiness is yours, you cannot realistically share it with anyone. This is why you must be very careful about the decisions you allow people to make for you in life.
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It’s the privilege of your parents to advise you on whom to marry, but it’s your natural right to decide whom to marry. If you ever swap your right for privilege, humanity maybe busy with other things when you are complaining.
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You see, what matters most should not be sacrificed for what matters least. Take back your life. Life is too short. Don’t allow anyone to make you go where you don’t really want to go,or do what you don’t really want to do. It’s your life *take it back and live it to the fullest*. It’s easier to endure the consequences of our full conscious decisions than to endure the consequences of a decision that never received our full and conscious approval.
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However, when you are done taking back your life, use it constructively to make a difference that will outlive you. Use it to prove to some people that you really know what you mean when you told them to leave you alone. *This is Earth,we came once and we die once too.*
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In the light of the above therefore, take back your life and do things that are worthwhile and truly satisfy your conscience. *Your happiness should come first before others*

Think about this

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Do not give up as long as you have something to give.

Onyeka Ozoudeokpoko

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