BE BEFORE HAVING

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Grammatically, we have what is called *verbs to-be* And some of them are: *be,has, have, being etc*(I explained it in details in LEWE group). Thus, from the above, you discover that *be* comes first.
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*In life, you must first be happy and appreciatiate yourself, before you can have happiness in your marriage, workplace and vocational life etc*
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If our happiness and peace of the mind depends more on what we have and not who we are,then we will easily manipulate people, compromise our Values in order to maintain what we have.
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Furthermore,we may be taken advantage of too. For instance,if your happiness depends only on your husband, wife,cars, certificates etc, you discover that you lose yourself more when things do not go the way you expect them.
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Be with yourself. Love who you are and how you are. *You alone should be comfortable with your own self first before someone can be comfortable with you. No external factors can make this happen to you.*
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Some people are can’t stay for some minutes and have conversations with their inner self. In literature, there is what is called *soliloquy*- talking to one’s self.
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In loving yourself, you are at *be level* other things are secondary. We lose more when we do not operate on this level.
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I am not trying to encourage you to do the way I do but if you are closer to me, you discover that I walk alone in most cases,yet I have many friends both males and females.
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The reason I do so is because I discuss with myself. I used to bring a topic or a project and begin to imagine the benefits humanity stands to gain if I should work to making a reality. This has greatly helped me to manage situations. I don’t need people to validate my values, happiness and peace. *I do so myself because I am one of the people*.
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Ever know,if you are not happy when you are single, you may not be when you are married. *You see, zero is greater than minus one*.
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Consider yourself running on *minus* if you are not operating at the level of *be*.

Think about this

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Do not give up,as long as you have something to give.